Ipoh 怡保..Malaysia

We all woke up at 4am and leave the house at about 5 pm. Outside was so dark and very quiet. The traffic was quite smooth, not many cars were on the road. We passed Singapore custom and Malaysia custom at about 6am.

Dark with a brighter moon..

Driving on the Highway to malaysia.

Sun was coming up.

Sun had risen..but this is the moon..

I wanted to take photo of sun rising.. but it was not in my side.. so i couldn't take it.

It was so foggy..and not many lights on the road.. so Alan couldn't see very clearly.

At shell petrol station. and still able to see the moon..=]

Our Car..

After about 6 hours driving, we finally reached Ipoh. It wasn't many cars on the road, so we reached there quite fast although ALan didn't drive as fast as before. It was only about 120 to 140 km/h. I didn't sleep in the car. cos i needed to help him see the traffic and other people were sleeping, if i also slept and left him to drive, he would be so sleepy as well. It is very dangerous.

When we reached there, his grandgather was sleeping. They woke said he couldn't recognise people sometime.So after he woke up.. they asked him does he recognise ALan.. oh.. he could call out his name very loudly.. we all kept laughing about it. However, he still couldn't recognise me.. actually he never remember me althought i meet him so many times. He asked Alan's uncle did he see me before.. his uncle said i have come for many many times lu..then he looked at me.. hmm.. still couldn't remember..=]

Alan's grandparents still kept asking us to get marry, cos they wanna see.. they are old already, they said they couldn't wait too long. They said just register marry.. no need to have wedding dinner, because it will be so troublesome to have dinner in Malaysia, Singapore and Hong Kong. They said this since chinese new year when we went back. Alan just kept "orh Orh Orh" and me just kept quiet. Their conversations were in Hokkien. So most of the time i counldn't understand what they were saying. I only could guess about it.

We went shopping in the afternoon after a nap and lunch. Ipoh has many hills. I think it is surrounded by hills. So you can see this picture everywhere.

We normally had dinner at home.. they must cook many many nice food when we come. So we didn't have much chance to eat the special food outside. This was the only chance we dined out.

On the 2nd day, we went shopping for the whole afternoon before we visited his grandfather. He kept asking why alan wasn't there yet. After he saw us, he was so happy.

On the 3rd day, we woke up at 8am to prepare to go back. We went for breakfast before visited his grandfater. And we left Ipoh at about 10am. Our next stop was 麻婆.. We needed to collect some fruits from his auntie's home. From Ipoh to 麻婆 is about 3 to 4 hours driving.

Durian tree outside the house..

Can you see many durians there??

We reached home at about 4:30pm.. and we opened the durian straight away..heehee.. it was so nice. Me and Alan delivered some durians and pomelos to his friends and relatives. After we went home i felt so tired and sleepy. I slept at about 11pm.

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P.S. I wasn't sleeping on the night before we went to malaysia. I kept thinking (and with some crying ) of our relationship. I think the best time of our relationship was during the time we were studying in australia. Both of us didn't have much stress. After that we stayed in different countries for 2 years. Talking on phone was the only thing to keep our relationshp, althought we would see each other twice a year. I thought our relationship didn't change. Now .. In this moment, in our working life .. with many stress and problems to deal with everyday, the way to treat each other is different. Everyday he seems so stress and tired at work. He is easy to have temper. Not much time he can spend for me. I am thinking how can i treat this person better as he is so easy to have temper, can i be with this person forever.. after maybe 40 or 50 years. I am not sure. When he is nice..he will be very nice. But when he has temper, everyone will scared him. Maybe i was thinking too much. Maybe i have so much free time to think. Maybe we were thinking of our marriage recently.

I think we should be fine. =)