Sunday, November 25, 2007

九型人格分析

MY 九型人格分析
第六型忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型
13%
第七型快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型
13%
第九型和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者
13%
第五型智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型
12%
第一型完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使
12%
第三型成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型
9%
第四型藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者
9%
第二型助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型
9%
第八型領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型
8%



第九型 is more suitable for me..
在很多情況,你都是和平使者,善解人意,隨和。你很容易了解別人,卻不是太清楚自己想要什麼,會顯得優柔寡斷。相對地說,你的主見會比較少,寧願配合其他人的安排,做一個很好的支持者,所以你是心較被動的。主要特徵:

  1. 用不必要的事物來取代真實的需要。最重要的事情往往被留在了一天的最後時刻。
  2. 難以做出決定。「我是同意,還是不同意」或「我是想去,還是不想去?」
  3. 根據習慣行動,重複熟悉的解決方法。儀式主義。
  4. 很難說"不"。
  5. 壓抑身體的能量和怒火。
  6. 用被動進攻和頑固堅持來表現控制力。
  7. 關注他人的立場。
  8. 難以保持個人的立場,但是卻能擁有感知他人內心體驗的能力。

代表人物:林肯華德‧迪士尼

Resign..

I have resigned finally.. my last day at this centre is 22/12..and i wanna to go singapore for christmas on 23/12.. but have to see still can get the ticket or not ar.. hope i can get a cheap ticket la..

Friday, September 21, 2007

My Plan..

I am still working in the centre where is near my house. They didn't ask me to go back to the old centre anymore. However, our playgroup classes are almost full. They asks me to teach more classes.. that is a very bad things , because me and my work partner are teaching a huge amount of children already..for keeping the quality, we can't have anymore. However, i have no choice..i need to open some new classes .. i feel a bit upset and i have no confident that i can keep the quality.

One of my plan is .... i will go to singapore. I wanna apply Work Holiday Programme that is organised by singapore givernmant. I can apply to work in singapore for half a year if i was graduated from Australia/ Hong Kong / UK/US etc university. Starting apply from 1/12. I will definitly apply it. So i thinking to quit the job early dec or end of nov. But my sis doesn't agree with that. she wants me to quit after i have got the visa. So i am still not sure when is the best time.

For the last few weeks. I had a great graduation ceremony. I had a happy time with alan in hong kong. i took many photos with my friends and family. And i made my hair straight again..heehee

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Time..

Haven't updated my blog for soooooooooooooo long lu. Many things were happened~~~~~ but i am just lazy to update it here..

My centre:
Many unhappy things were happened..many new staff came.. many old staff will go. I may need to go as well. Although i have passed my probation, i may be changed to work at other centre again.. Aiiii..seem i have no choice for it. =[

For my work.. what can i do now ~ do what i can do. I can't say it is the best. But i do it from my heart. I love to work with most of the people in this centre..except someone. I love to see the children and i know them quite well now. if go back to the old centre.. all the things need to start again. Can i jsut stay and work happily until i go to singapore? i just need few more months..

I was sink for two weeks last month. Seem doctor twice..had many medicines.. but the worst things is i couldn't sleep a lot. i went to bed straight away and sleep more then 10 hours. however i need to work more than 10 hours as well. I was so tired and sleepy during work cos of the medicines. I don't wanna sick anymore. it is a poor thing when you still need to work =p

Alan is coming end of this week. Because my graduation ceremony will be held on 28/8. I am waiting to see him and i thing we will have some good time =)

Saturday, June 09, 2007

Work..

Working in the new centre for a week already lu.. i think i have coped with the working style there already.. not much pressure now.. take over the classes is ok.. cos there is not many children per class.. Besides, keep listening so many negative feedbacks about the manager and some colleagues.. but i am not really care about it.. don't know why..i know i need to be carefull about them, but i don't think they can hurt me so much (hopefully)..

Photos @KUMON..


























During Class..all the children are so lovely and smart..=)

Our farewell party ..last day in lam tin ~~


























Sunday, June 03, 2007

New centre..

My working life in the new centre seem going smoothly.. not as busy as the old centre.. not as serious as the old centre.. even the boss is there.. we won't be in the same room. The people and the manager are ok.. althought not as funny as the people in the old centre. JUST SEE HOW DOES EVERYTHING GO~~~~

On the other hand.. when can we stay together forever.. i always think that if we can solve this problem during this year..we harldly keep it on. But what can we do.. what is the best solution??? He just told me he is not feeling good about this.. He doesn't know what can he do.. His worry make me feel down as well.. should i start my life in there earlier? But how can i tell my family? Seem so many questions ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Thursday, May 31, 2007

Another centre..

Time go fast.. i am working in kumon for a month la.. and tmr is my time to go another centre ( my real working place ). i am a bit of worry about the new place.. they said my boss already opened 3 new classes for me to take over.. Besides.. i like the people in lam tin centre.. they are very nice.. we always have fun..always laught.. today they had a farewell party for me and other person who are going with me tomorrow. We took photos .. i even took a photo with the children who was teached my me tim ar.. so happy leh.. But for the new centre.. they said be carefull about the manager..boss always be there.. what i should do is only work work work and don't say so much stupid thing. ~~~~~~~~ how long will i stay in this job leh????

Monday, April 30, 2007

Feel a bit better..

I has been working for few days .. i don't know why i felt so much pressure at the beginning. Maybe i haven't copy with a working life. Don't wanna go to work.. keep thinking about work when i sleep. Actually this job is ok.. but it is still harder than what i expect..it is harder than what i did in Australia's kumon.. My HK kumon is the biggest kumon in the asia and in the whole world.. My boss is a person who can talk very well..her sweet talk is excellent. But her expectation is also very high.. the number of students in our centre is the most highest in the world. Because of this, we are very busy..everytime when students come, it likes a war.. you need to work very very fast to deal with all the problems.. and the place is very small~~~~ seldom staff are work more than one year in there. everyone seems new. i don't know can i stay there for one year.. what i can say is~~~ i will try~~~

WISH ME LUCK!!! and i need SUPPORTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT to help myself calm down..

Friday, April 27, 2007

=___=

個心好亂呀!!!!!!!

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

KUMON..

I finally got another job. Today i signed the contract and worked a whole day.

At the end i also went back to kumon..after so many steps and seems like making a round and round. But this job make me feel better..although working hours are long (52 hours per week) and salary is low (8k), they give me a training period..just be a assiatant first..learn as much as i can..then slow i will be in charge by myself..everything step by step.. i like this kind of attitude. it makes me feel more confident..and they always support me.. i hope i will like this job and work until i leave hk la..

HK kumon is quite diff to melb kumon. Here got playgroup for young children to play before they start to do their work. And i will be a playgroup teacher later to take over a group of children.. still have long way to learn..

P.S. ma chai also found a job already la.. i am so happy that all of our friends who are not studying have jobs now. =)

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Quited..

I have quited the Po Leung Kuk job after i few days..

i really don't know what does the surpervisor want.. she didn't give me time to prepare, didn't tell me things about children, tell me nothing about the materials, but she wanted me to do some creative activities with the children, take care of the children by myself. She said i still haven't be the standard that she wants, so i still keep working as a part time worker first.. so this two weeks, i only worked 2 days per week and this week only 5 hours per day.. even called me to work b4 the day. No lunch break, cos we would eat with the children together, then worked again.. don't know which age group will i work with everyday, don't know how many children, she never told me before. I was so stress to work with that. children although are not that naughty..but the environment is quite messy. Although other staff are nice, salary is good..but i still can't stand for it..keep losting my voice after work..i decided to quit.. mum, sis and alan also supported me.

Looking for work again~~~

Monday, March 19, 2007

Going to work..

Received a call from Po Leung Kok yesterday(sunday), never expected to receive call on sunday ga.. cos normally office won't work on sunday ga ma..

The lady who called me was quite nice, she let me choose when to start work.. although it is just trying and i only be planned to work two days.. but she said i should be fine, cos i studyed childcare before and i should be able to apply the theories there. She asked me to work morning shift cos there will be easier and lesser children. So now i am planned to work on this coming thursday and friday from 9-5 (this is morning shift, then don't know when is night shift leh). I hope i can keep going to work on this job after this 2 days la.

Saturday, March 17, 2007

Such a surprise..

Because i need to register to be a childcare worker in hk and 香港學術評審局 required me to provide them my placement records, i had sent a emil to the coordinator in Australia last night. It is a very big surprise about her fast response. She replied my email immediately and said she can help me for this.. she will check my records on monday and write me a letter, then post to my hk address.. i am so glad to hear about it and hope that i can register soon la.

Today went to 香港花展. Although it was raining, but it is nice to visit there and is a good activity. Took some photos =) will upload them later..

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

Job..

13/3
Before i wanted go to 香港學術評審局 to hand in my form, i received a call from 保良局. They asked me that have i registered..i said i just applied it and don't know when can i get it. then she said will talk to her supervisor first. A bit of disappointed cos i may not be able to get a job if i haven't registered. Went to 香港學術評審局 after that.. another disappointed.. they said i need to prove my practical hours when i did my diploma.. what .. i pay $2000 for them..should them do it for me.. is that their responsibility to find out my course details .. i really don't know how can i find something to prove it .. now they don't accept my application until i can prove it.. let see what i can do =(

Met ma chai in MK after all the disappointed. we did a great shopping.. things are very cheap during our shopping, 保良局called me for interview on 14/3.. wah never expected it and this would be my first interview.. so went back home to prepare many things for interview..

14/3
Today woke up at 8:15..couldn't sleep well last night. i kept thinking of the interview ar.. left home at about 9:10 and reached there at about 10:10, my interview was on 10:30. filled in some form then waited to meet the supervisor. not many people waiting there.. only 3 people included me. i was the 2nd one and the interview was about 35mins..such a long time ar.. this job is kind of hard job and not want i have expected.. i have to take care 0-18 years old children.. all of them also have some kind of problem from home..so they stay in 保良局for protection..it means that these people is not easy to handle .. the supervisor kept asking me that do it still wanna do it.. i said i wanna try and i maybe able to handle it.. she said she will arrange few days for me to try to work on this job.. see how they run the center.. see what should i do in there and can i handle it.. it is suitable for me.. if i am ok for it .. i will keep going to do this job.. salary is about $11000 with shift duty .. i hope i will actually get this job..and i will be working there happily la.. will try.. now i need to wait for their call to tell me when will i start trying this job.. Another best thing of this job is .. i don't have to be a registered childcare worked.. so i don't have to rush to deal with all the register things..

Monday, March 12, 2007

16th Aug..

8月16日 深具磁性的人
宮位:獅子座22º-24º
獅子座三
固定的火象


8月16日出生的人是個充滿爆發力的官能主義者,他們十分清楚自己應該怎么做與想得到什么。不管他們從事的是什么,他們都能散發出優雅的格調與極度吸引力人的魅力,這些特質使得別人樂于秘他們相處,并且想進一步親近他們。大部分出生于今天的人,不論外在行為多么清新與冷靜,無可避免地,還是會對感官與性愛活動產生特殊的興趣。此外,他們的人格中還潛伏著一股權威的氣質,因此,不但無法容忍和他們相反的意見,還會設法壓制這些意見相左的人,有時還會摧毀這些被他們被為眼中釘的反對者與敵人。同時,在他們身上還可很明顯地發現他們想累積影響勢力的強烈欲望。

一旦8月16日出生的人脫 奔馳的時候,就真的會離經叛道,對他們來說,驚世駭俗沒什么大小了,況且他們奇特的行為也很需要有觀眾來捧場,因為默默地忍受痛苦是他們最無法承受的事。出生于這一天的人最大的希望,就是能在眾人面前展現自己,讓群眾的和他們一起分享體驗。

一般而言,8月16日出生的人最極端敏感又神經質的人,雖然他們會因別人的冷漠而受到傷害,但他們也會將自己武裝起來,懷抱著一顆鐵石腸,用以應付各種不管是精神上或身體上的打擊。假若他們刻意要摧毀某人的話,他們也的確做得出來,甚至有時候,報復還是他們相當重要的動機。除了擁有魅力與吸引力之外,這些今天出生的人還會借著若即若離的態度施展可怕的誘人力量。如果他們太偏離正道的話,到最后,無可避免地,這些毀滅性的力量終將轉移到他們自己身上。此外,他們喜好尋求刺激感的偏好,將使他們的人格遭到扭曲或變得十分極端。

對8月16日出生的人來說,他們最大的潛在危險,就是不再有能力欣賞單純的樂趣或任何被他們嘲笑為老古董的事物。于是,他們會逐漸和家人與朋友疏遠。不過,盡管他們有反權威、甚至反社會的傾向,但大多數今天出生的人,還是能在社會中找到適合他們的生存空間,并且這個領域內發揮真正的才干,以滿足社會或生活圈中的需求。

此外,他們雖然喜歡領導別人,但對于統治他人卻興趣缺缺。身為領導者,他們可能會獲得別人的敬愛或甚至是崇拜﹔但身為統治者,他們不一定擔負得起為團體謀划的重南。他們的專長在于勸誘與煽動,而非支配與控制。

幸運數字和守護星

8月16日出生的人會受到數字7和海王星的影響。受數字7影響的人經常虎頭蛇尾,并且很容易與現實脫節。海王星則是一個代表夢想、幻想與宗教情懷的星球,透過海王星與太陽(獅子座的主宰行星)的交互影響,8月16日出生的人擁有鼓舞他人與高度浪漫的特質。但受數字7影響的人缺乏理財的概念,經常使家人的生計捉襟見肘,因此,必須有人為他們管賬或充當他們的會計。

健康

8月16日出生的人有不知節制的傾向,因此必須留意,不可在飲食、性、戀愛關系與追求刺激快感上過分放縱,以免影響到心理上的穩定。但對于今天出生的人來說,要他們過著正常、健全或公式化的生活,簡直是一種折磨,不過,只要他們能將某些健康的習性轉化為日常生活的一部分,例如,天然食物或有趣的運動,如此一來,就能導入正確的生活軌道。當然,隨著年齡增長,人世間也會嘗試為健康做出較佳的選擇,但盡管如此,長命百歲并不是今天出生的人追尋的目標。

建議

當你必須處理人間雜務時,學著將你的磁力轉換成熱能,但不要一次燃燒殆盡。對你的敵人仁慈一點,也許,有朝一日你也需要他們。

名 人

麥當娜(Madonna)美國超級巨星,歌星、作詞者與演員,以聲音嬌嗔及性感作風自創風格,最近的電影作品為《阿根廷別為我哭泣》。
澳洲導演柏瑞斯福德8Bruce Berestord),擅長執導文藝片,代表作為《溫柔的慈悲》、《溫馨接送情》等,后者曾獲奧斯卡最佳影片獎。
葡萄牙總理蓋塔諾(Marcella Gaetano)。
美國爵士樂與民謠歌手希布勒(Al Hibbler),天生的盲人,和名爵士樂作曲家艾靈頓公爵住在一起達8年之久。
波普藝朮家與社會諷刺畫家索爾(Peter Saul)。
T.E.勞倫斯(T.E.Lawrence)英國探險家、軍人與作家,綽號“阿拉伯的勞倫斯”,著有《智慧七柱》等書。


塔羅牌

大秘儀塔羅牌的第16張是“高塔”,畫面上國王從雷擊的高塔上摔下來,而建塔者則被一拳打中頭部死去。高塔不只象征現實事物的暫性,也代表了人際關系和職業的變動性﹔而這些改變又往往是突然且迅速的。牌面正立時,這張牌顯示能接受挫折,并勇敢克服挑戰﹔牌面倒立則代表得意忘形、自作自受以及沉迷在虛紀不實的想象中。

靜思語

就敏感的人而言,枕邊細語很少會出現謊言。

優點

有魅力、具磁性、目標取向。

缺點

具毀滅性、叛逆、不知節制。

Register..

Today received a call from 教育統籌局..they asked me about my qualification. Because i am holding the qualification from australia..so i need to sent my details to 香港學術評審局, they will check my qualification..does it equal to hk qualification.. then i will receive a letter from them..after that send this letter to 教育統籌局. Besides, for checking my qualification.. i need to pay $2610..wa.. so expensive ar.. =( all my red pockets and saving $$..both spend on this la.. and need to wait for 2 weeks for this.. then another 2 weeks to 3 weeks to register.. if like that, it is impossible to get a childcare job in this month la. Beacuse of this i decided to apply to a tutor job in Kumon.. the salary may not be as high as childcare.. at least i can get a job first la.. even a part time job i think i will do it..

Yesterday went out for lunch with ma chai and her sister.. because i wanna to pass her some souvenirs from singapore. after that i went to her house to watch korean show and borrowed 花樣少年少女 =) wanna to watch it for long long time la.. kekeke =p

Saturday, March 03, 2007

Job Seeking..

finally i have done my resume. tonight i have sent one application by email and going to post 3 applications tomorrow.. hope will get apply soon la. i think i am ready for getting a job la..heehee =>

besides, i am happy to know that alan is having a same target as me.. to get enough $$ to get marry.. both of us hoping that it can be fulfilled within this 2 years =)

P.S. Yan Yan i learnt to use SPSS for statistic in uni ar.. so if you got problem..can ask me..i think i still got the book for SPSS..=p

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

I am back..

I was back from singapore for about a week la..just the day b4 chinese new year =P i was crying when Alan left and i was walking inside the airport alone, i don't know when i can see him again =( Besides,everything is ok in singapore, is just that don't know when we can be together forever with each other.. i am working hard..

I was searching job on internet and found out that i have to register to government as a qualified childcare worker..therefore i bought a printer with copy and scan functions to print out the form.. copied some documents and posted it today lu.. hope i will get the reply soon la.. i also found many jobs avaliable, so i am making my resume now.. hope can send some out within this week la..Wish we luck

My classmates who graduated same time with me found job already..seem not very difficult to find a job in hk now.. i also hope i will start job before april..this is my target..heehee =)

Monday, January 29, 2007

A Sunny Day..

Today is a sunny day ar.. haven't seen the sun since i came here..always was cloudy .

Sad thing happened on last sat..i thought i could have a happy weekend since alan only work 5 days. Sat morning, we woke up at arounf 11 then went for a hair cut.. we went in the salon on the same time and there were not many people yet.. but alan finished very fast and i think i finished one and half hour later then him lor.. cos the hairdresser cut another person after alan ..but i like my new look ..heehee =) .. after that we went for lunch and did some shopping.. when we drove from one shopping centre to another shopping centre..we crashed our car.. we hit the front car since the driver suddenly break the car.. he said he saw a car coming but actually no car lor..but because we hit his car..so it's our fault..i was so sad lor..this is the 3rd time la..i was with him and crashed the car.. now the car is in workshop and we can't go many places since we don't have a car...

Sunday i stayed at home most of the time..alan bought lunch home to eat.. but at night we needed to go for a dinner..cos it was one of his friend's brithday.. if we take bus..it would be very trouble and waste time.. at the end..we ride bike. this is the first time i sat on his bike.. so scared ar..although i wore the jacket and helmet..i still felt scared when he incresed the speed or made some turnings.. luckily the place wasn't that far.. we arrived there safely.. then all his friends laught and asked how do i feel..i kept saying that i was scared. don't know there is how many time i will sit on his bike..but it is a good experience..only with him.. =)

Monday..i woke up early and walked to the market.. i know it is only opened at the morning..i reached there at about 11:30am all the shops were closed..luckily there still was one shop open and i bought some vege to cook a soup..don't know the soup is nice or not ar.. cos i couldn't get some pork.. so the taste may not be same as before.. hope it is nice la..then i had my lunch..after that i iron some clothes..today i did many things ar..not that bored la..at least..i hope i can cook more often in here la..

Thursday, January 25, 2007

In Singapore...

I have arrived singapore finally..after so many re-arranged..i am here lu..

Nothing much to do here except to see HIM =)

Alan needs to work everyday. So normally i will wake up at 7am as he will wake up, then go back to sleep after he leaves home. everyday i wanna go out to buy lunch ( this is the only reason i can go out and is the only place i know how to go), but his father or mother must buy for me after i wake up, so i don't have chance to go out alone lu..it make me feel shame, cos i don't have to do anything..but i will still go out for dinner after Alan finishes work. In the mean time, i won't be bored, cos there is tvbj and here have many many dvds..i have many things to watch ga..heehee

Two nights ago, i was having a back pain..the pillow is too hard and i slept until my back so painful, couldn't sleep well. Therefore the next day, we went out to buy a very nice pillow =p .. now my back pian no more lu..

I am searching about midwife recently. That day i went to school and talked to Ng sir, he suggested me to work as a midwife and my sis also said this idea is not bad. she said HK is short of midwife now, many people from china come to hk and give birth. If i want to become a qualified midwife, i need to do a course which is about one and a half year, in the mean time i need to work as well, but i will get salary.. and it is quite high ga.. so it seems really good .. i am still looking for more information first..will see how when i go back to hk la..

Thursday, January 11, 2007

I am Back..

Sorry about the late..i haven't update my blog for long long time.. is time for me to write something la..

i am ok in hk.. everyday i wake up at about 9:00am..such a healthy life style..kekeke..normally will have breakfast with my sis/mum and the little child. she can talk and play many things la.. after eating i must play with her for a long time until she sleeps again. I didn't go many places and do shopping, only went to ocean park on new year eve. Met some of the friends already. and i heard that one of the teacher from my secondary school died few weeks before..so i may go to school on 21/1 for that.

22nd i will go to singapore for about a month..still thinking should i come back before chinese new year or after that..=[ Maybe i will get online more often in there because i don't have anything to do and everyone is working..